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Boundaries

Development of Boundaries:
  • Bonding: The Foundation of Boundary Building
  • Separation and Individuation: The Construction of a Soul
  • Hatching: "Mommy and Me Aren't the Same"
  • Practicing: "I Can Do Anything!"
  • Rapprochement: "I Can't Do Everything"

Boundary Injuries: What Goes Wrong?"

  • withdrawal from boundaries
  • hostility against boundaries
  • overcontrol
  • lack of limits
  • inconsistent limits
  • trauma
  • our own character traits
  • our own sinfulness

Ten Laws of Boundaries

  • Law #1: The Law of Sowing and Reaping
  • Law #2: The Law of Responsibility
  • Law #3: The Law of Power
  • Law #4: The Law of Respect
  • Law #5: The Law of Motivation
  • Law #6: The Law of Evaluation
  • Law #7: The Law of Proactivity
  • Law #8: The Law of Envy
  • Law #9: The Law of Activity
  • Law #10: The Law of Exposure

Boundary Myths

  • Myth #1: If I Set Boundaries, I'm Being Selfish
  • Myth #2: Boundaries Are A Sign of Disobedience
  • Myth #3: If I Begin Setting Boundaries, I Will Be Hurt By Others
  • Myth #4: If I Set Boundaries, I Will Hurt Others
  • Myth #5: Boundaries Mean That I Am Angry
  • Myth #6: When Others Set Boundaries, It Injures Me
  • Myth #7: Boundaries Cause Feelings of Guilt
  • Myth #8: Boundaries Are Permanent, and I'm Afraid of Burning My Bridges

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