Boundaries
Development of Boundaries:
- Bonding: The Foundation of Boundary Building
- Separation and Individuation: The Construction of a Soul
- Hatching: "Mommy and Me Aren't the Same"
- Practicing: "I Can Do Anything!"
- Rapprochement: "I Can't Do Everything"
Boundary Injuries: What Goes Wrong?"
- withdrawal from boundaries
- hostility against boundaries
- overcontrol
- lack of limits
- inconsistent limits
- trauma
- our own character traits
- our own sinfulness
Ten Laws of Boundaries
- Law #1: The Law of Sowing and Reaping
- Law #2: The Law of Responsibility
- Law #3: The Law of Power
- Law #4: The Law of Respect
- Law #5: The Law of Motivation
- Law #6: The Law of Evaluation
- Law #7: The Law of Proactivity
- Law #8: The Law of Envy
- Law #9: The Law of Activity
- Law #10: The Law of Exposure
Boundary Myths
- Myth #1: If I Set Boundaries, I'm Being Selfish
- Myth #2: Boundaries Are A Sign of Disobedience
- Myth #3: If I Begin Setting Boundaries, I Will Be Hurt By Others
- Myth #4: If I Set Boundaries, I Will Hurt Others
- Myth #5: Boundaries Mean That I Am Angry
- Myth #6: When Others Set Boundaries, It Injures Me
- Myth #7: Boundaries Cause Feelings of Guilt
- Myth #8: Boundaries Are Permanent, and I'm Afraid of Burning My Bridges
Live Life With No Regrets!




