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May 24, 2009

Love is Not Sex

How To Use Time Travel To Seduce A Woman - in which you're in love with one of your friends, but she has a boyfriend and probably wouldn't have sex with you anyway. (Cowboy Caleb)

I couldn't help but wonder the implied implication that Cowboy Caleb equates love with sex.

Love isn't sex. If a man truly loves a woman he will honour her and NOT have sex with a woman.

If a woman cannot have sex does that mean a man can leave her because he cannot have sex and henceforth cannot love her? In fact, quite the opposite, it is the test of a man's love that he will remain with her despite not having sex.

May 9, 2009

Despair

Despair is the absolute extreme of self-love. It is reached when a man deliberately turns his back on all help from anyone else in order to taste the rotten luxury of knowing himself to be lost...

Despair is the ultimate development of a pride so great and so stiff-necked that it selects the absolute misery of damnation rather than accept happiness from the hands of God and thereby acknowledge that he is above us and that we are not capable of fulfilling our destiny ourselves.

But a man who is truly humble cannot despair, because in a humble man there is no longer any such thing as self-pity.

Thomas Merton

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